Tuesday, April 28, 2009

The engagement photo shoot was a lot of fun! We met our fabulous photographer, April Greer, at Dragonfish in downtown Portland first. Since I am really uncomfortable having my photo taken, I was really going to need a drink before setting out. Luckily, Dragonfish has some delicious drinks which totally helped.

I'd originally planned on just wandering around either downtown or the Pearl, since I didn't know how far we'd probably go with the wandering. Surprisingly (to me), we really took most of our photos in about a three block radius of Dragonfish. The weather was oddly cooperative as well; even though it had been raining for a bit and really windy before we started taking photos, when we started really wandering around outside, the sun came out and stayed around for the rest of our session.

Not surprisingly, I don't really know how to pose and stuff for the camera. I still felt uncomfortable, despite my delicious drink. April was really great in that she totally gave us direction when J and I just kind of sat there and looked at each other. It was really helpful, especially when we felt really awkward taking photos in public. People really like to stare! Also, since they were engagment photos, it was kind of like just making out all around the city. Not terrible, but kind of awkward with people watching.

The funniest part of the afternoon was when we were taking some photos in the park blocks. April had J and me stand in the grass on this small hill, and as we were trying our best to look like a pair of lovebirds, this homeless-looking guy (girl?) wandered by and yelled at us, "get a room!" J and I just cracked up.

Also kind of funny about the day was that there was this couple taking wedding photos in the same area we were! I couldn't tell if it was the actual day of their wedding or it was a day-after shoot or anything. We took our photos on a Thursday, so it's likely that it was just a day-after shoot. After watching that couple's photographer (and stylist, who was following them around and positioning the couple and making sure the girl's dress fanned out properly...weird!), I am really glad we have April doing our photos. The other couple's photos seemed really weird and oddly posed. I'm sure they will turn out ok in print, but watching them being taken was a whole different matter. In any event, we made April promise not to make us take photos like some of the ones we saw. She said that was no problem, heehee.

Anyway, the photo session was great! We really felt less awkward as the time went on, and I think it will probably reflect in our photos. April told us it would probably be about two weeks for the proofs to be done, so I was really surprised and excited when she sent me a few sneak peeks on Friday! I posted a few below.





So there's our shoot! I am really excited to see the rest of the photos. April is the best photographer ever!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Hello! Guess what, another wedding thing is going to be taken care of tomorrow!

Tomorrow I'm taking a half day off of work, going to get my hair styled by my stylist, grabbing J and meeting our photographer downtown for our engagment photo session! I am super excited, as I love love love our photographer, and I am excited to see what kinds of places we will discover for photos. I am doubly happy because up until yesterday, the forecast for Thursday was showers. As of yesterday, though, the chance of rain is only 20%! And while it would have been nice to have Monday and Tuesday's gorgeous sunshine to take photos in, I have been informed that cloudy skies are actually best for photos as they diffuse the light. So, I guess I will take it.

I spent some time and money with my bridesmaid, K, on Sunday. We took our bank accounts to the cute boutiques on NW 23rd to find some engagment photo outfits. I definitely did my part to stimulate the economy, but I am not sure the stuff I found will work for the shoot. We will have to see how the weather shapes up tomorrow. In any event, I am sure I will find some cute things to wear. Too bad I haven't been following my diet, but oh well. Today's burrito was delicious, even if it wasn't waist-friendly.

I haven't done much planning with my venue lately because I just don't like communicating with them. Also, we heard from a family friend of J's that he thought our venue was up for renewal of their liquor license and it might be denied! Of course, that made me freak out, as most things do these days. However, with more digging around, it seems that the concert venue/bar below our wedding venue is the one that is up for its OLCC license renewal. I guess the neighborhood is unhappy with the drunk patrons from the bar that spill into the residential streets after shows, and are drunk and disorderly or start fights. Hopefully this will not affect our wedding venue! J has already called the coordinators and left a message, so we will see what they say.

Up next (hopefully soon!): flowers, cakes, and fittings! Oh my!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

I know, I know! I'm a horrible blogger. It's been what, 1 1/2 months since I posted anything? And I came back with a post that said I'd be back soon? I know. All lies.

In my defense, wedding planning is hard! Nobody told me that I'd have such a whirlwind at first, collecting magazines, setting the date, booking the venue and photographer, selecting the dress, getting the bridesmaids...it was a lot in a short period! All I can say is I was spectacularly burned out after I got all that done. In fact, after the bridal show in January, I just wasn't interested in ANYTHING bridal related. It didn't help that my future mother-in-law was really into it, and I felt bad whenever she'd ask me what I had next to do and I'd brush the question off.

Anyway, the wedding planning has slowly been picking up momentum in the last few weeks. Unfortunately, since I work in public accounting, it has also coincided with the last few weeks of busy season (april 15 is coming soon!). Thus, I haven't been able to do all the planning I want to because my weekends are full of work. Still, I've managed to get some things done.

I picked up the dress this past Saturday! It's just as beautiful as I remember it, which is super exciting. I've been having worries that I didn't remember my dress and would hate it! But luckily, I still love it. Now it just needs to be altered. Also, all my accessories came in with it, so I can finally schedule my hair trials with my tiara and veil!

We also finally got the Save the Dates sent out to be printed! I won't post what they look like yet because, obviously, people haven't gotten them or seen them yet. But I will try to post a pic when we finally get them out. They'll be going out behind schedule, but oh well. I love them; they are great! My awesomely talented sister designed them for me, and they incorporate both my Asian heritage and J's family's Irish background. I love it.

In the next few weeks, I hope to schedule some florist consultations, a hair trial, and maybe a makeup trial! Ooh, and our engagement photos are scheduled for two weeks from now. It's all very exciting! Hopefully I won't burn out again. Not much time left for that!

How have you all been doing while I was bumming around?